It’s a very difficult time for any married couple. Sometimes, there’s an event that causes strain between a couple that can’t be repaired. Sometimes, it’s just a matter of drifting apart over the years. Divorce is considered, then enacted.
In the United States, researchers estimate that between 40% and 50% of first marriages will end in divorce. The number grows for second marriages, where an estimated 60% will end in divorce. And while divorce between any married couple is difficult, the added complication of children can lead to a situation that feels untenable.
In these times, divorce lawyers can be critical in understanding the lay of the land when it comes to divorces. They advocate for you in terms of property and monetary designation and the custody of your children. But choosing a divorce lawyer is an important step in the process and shouldn’t be rushed. Here are three tips for choosing a divorce lawyer.
Communication
This legal process may end up being one of the most important in your life. A red flag when choosing divorce lawyers is if the divorce attorney is difficult to communicate with, doesn’t seem to listen to what you have to say, and generally treats you like you’re just another case.
Experience
When choosing a divorce attorney, ask the following question: What is this attorney’s experience in handling these cases? Important aspects include how long they’ve been in practice and how long they have been a divorce attorney. Some attorneys may talk like they are one of the best in the area but testimonials may indicate differently.
Cost
It goes without saying that retaining the counsel of a divorce lawyer and having them represent you costs money. When money is a serious consideration, consider asking for multiple quotes on fees and how much time they expect to bill you for the case. A key cost will come before the actual negotiations, in preparation for the case. Ask how much preparation will be required and how much it will cost.
A special section needs to be devoted for child support. In 2011, $38 billion in child support was owed, which amounted to an average of $6,000 per year. But of that amount, only 62% of child support was received. And of the 12.5 million cases of child support each year, 75% had a noncustodial parent could pay the child support but refused.
A child support attorney may be able to help you file arrears, which is a legal term for the amount owed of a certain debt. It’s often used in cases of recurring payments such as rent or utilities and applies to child support.
Divorce is a very difficult time and divorce lawyers can help with the many different parts of the process. It’s important to find a divorce lawyer or child custody attorney who you are comfortable with, has the experience and track record, and will communicate with you about your case.
