Published on March 30th, 2015 | by Personal Rights0
Three Bits of Advice Anyone Going Through a Divorce Needs to Hear
One of the toughest things many people experience in their lives is going through a divorce. Forty-one percent of first marriages, 60% of second marriages, and 71% of third marriages end in divorce. It’s generally a very stressful time and can be emotionally taxing, so it’s important to try to get through the divorce process as smoothly and as quickly as possible. Here are three important pieces of advice that anyone going through a divorce should hear.
1. Look after yourself.
It can be hard to do when you’re making a big life change and going through the end of a relationship, but it’s important to take good care of yourself physically and emotionally as you go through the process. Make efforts to sleep well, eat well, and exercise and you’ll feel better for it. Reach out to family and friends for help and look for divorce support groups.
2. Consider the kids.
Aside from taking care of yourself, you also need to make sure that the children are well looked after too, from the moment the divorce papers are served. It can be easy for you and your spouse to argue, fight, and harbor negative feelings but it’s very important to remember the impact a divorce is going to have on them. At any time, there are about a million people in the United States whose parents have divorced. Make sure that if your kids are in that number that you keep them in mind.
3. Try open communication and mediation.
One of the easiest types of divorce is an uncontested divorce, which means that you and your spouse agree on all of the terms of the divorce. Hiring a family law attorney and keeping open communication as you file the divorce papers, split up assets, and sort out custody is important for making sure the process goes as smoothly as possible. Enlisting the help of objective legal professionals can be a helpful part of doing that.
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